Ho accettato la richiesta di una ragazza su Yubo e abbiamo iniziato a chattare. Ha detto che lavora in un centro commerciale. Ho chiesto quale centro commerciale, lei si è rifiutata di dirmelo.
Ho fatto una battuta del tipo “altrimenti ti trovo 😅”. Ha subito detto: “Quindi mi perseguiterai?” poi “Devo denunciarti?” Dopodiché mi ha denunciato su Yubo e ha detto “Ti suggerisco la polizia”.
Le ho detto che era chiaramente uno scherzo e che non ci conosciamo nemmeno, come faccio a trovarlo in 5 milioni di persone? Ha senso? ma continuava a minacciarmi?
Sono confuso e cerco di capire:
Questo tipo di comportamento è comune tra le ragazze finlandesi o si tratta solo di una reazione individuale?
Potrebbe trattarsi di un malinteso culturale o linguistico?
È possibile che semplicemente non volesse continuare la conversazione e abbia scelto questo modo per concluderla?
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di Michal_Jordan
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You did sound like a creep. Not sure how this is related to Finland though.
You came off as a creep.
What the fuck is any of this shit. Get a therapist.
”I am sure” makes you 100% sound like a creep to me, nothing to do with nationality, just your own lack of awareness in the situation. I suggest not making such ”jokes” in the future👍🏻
Is that comment normal for guys wherever you’re from? (I assume from how you talk said ‘ Finnish women ‘ you are not Finnish).
Honestly it does sound unsettling the way you worded it. I am not Finnish either but lived here 10 years. I am from the UK. I would say you maybe get to know someone first before giving any personal info about where you work. That’s up to them to share when ready. Making jokes about finding someone is odd.
Why are you saying that in the first place? The “I am sure” doesn’t help your case either. Idk about your country but here it isn’t ok to just joke about stalking someone.
Why you behave like that?
As I said in the previous post that you claimed was a personal attack on you by me…
You are acting like a creep/stalker. She responded as most would.
You didn’t just ‘make a joke’s you followed it with ‘i am sure’ which makes it seem more serious. You don’t know each other and it comes across badly. Why you need to know where she works anyway? And then to follow it up with those comments is a definite red flag.
Lots of women get stalked online and in real life by people so it’s a very valid fear. Obviously the CT of stalking involves people find out out their address, who they are, where they are and it happens every day. If that’s her actual picture you could use that to find out information about her. You are very naive about that part.
You don’t seem to be able to understand you could do anything wrong and instead are victim blaming the woman that it’s something wrong with how Finnish woman reacted, rather than what you said.
It may be an individual reaction but it is how I expect most would react.
When I suggested it could be a cultural difference you got mad at me so I won’t suggest that again…
You obviously then took personal issue with me talking you this.
You wanted the post made again so you could see all the other opinions of the public so I have locked it open so you can see.