Quindi fondamentalmente io (brasiliano F25) e il mio (finlandese M28) BF sono stati insieme da quasi un anno. Non viviamo insieme ma sono al suo posto almeno due volte a settimana, quindi ho lasciato tutte le mie cose lì. A volte i suoi genitori vengono a trovarlo, non li ho ancora incontrati, quindi non ci sono mai quando questo accade. Semplicemente non capisco perché, ma il mio ragazzo è imbarazzato della mia lingerie e lui lo nasconde quando vengono. Si giustifica dicendo che ho biancheria intima troia e che i suoi genitori sono anziani. È come una cosa culturale di te essere così riservata anche con i membri della famiglia? Ecco una foto della lingerie
https://i.redd.it/ez4xpehpmfoe1.jpeg
di Madprincess420
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I think I speak for a lot of people here:
I would rather my dad not know what my girlfriend is wearing as underwear when she comes over.
Would you let his boxers sit on the couch if your parents came over? It’s just etiquette, nothing crazy here.
I wouldnt be too happy to see other peoples underwear. Do you keep them on display or what
Nah that’s weird unless your panties were specifically on display.
That’s also a strange thing to say about one’s SO’s clothing in general.
What do you mean “hide”? Is it not normal to clean up underwear lying around when your parents visit? Why would they be visible in the first place?
Do you leave them lying around the house? If thats the case then yeah, I would clean em up and put away, too.
If you have them at drawer already and he goes extra mile to hide them, then that is tad weird.
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Underwear IS kinda private. So i think your man RESPECT it. Well done. I would do same.
You don’t have slutty underwear and it is not ok for your boyfriend to call it that way. Now, about his parents – I can’t imagine his parents caring about clothes on a clothes line, whatever if it is underwear, towels, T-shirts,…
But if your boyfriend wants to tidy up – hurray ! It’s always nicer to have a tidy house especially when you have guests coming over.
Kinks are getting weirder day by day… The whole post seems sketchy..
He did what he should do. What do you expect? Do you expect him to put them in the kitchen?
And why do we have to see your lingerie?
What I am gathering from here, is that these underwear were on clothesline as they were drying.
If the underwear was dry when your bf took them off, he is not hiding them, he is cleaning the apartment before his parents visit.
Hahah! The comment on slutty was a bit odd, until I realized it was slutty to his parents. To him, he probably likes them but his parents might gasp and clutch their pearls at a sight on somrthing other than granny panties.
Also if you have bot met them, it might not be obvious they are yours and now he’s just a guy with a bunch of women’s panties laying around. Don’t worry about it too much. Finnish people also are probably more of prudes than Brazilians are.
So what’s considered “elderly” in this case?
Why….shame on him…i like lingeries hanging around
Uhm…even if the parents weren’t elderly, there’s no reason to parade underwear around them.
Cultural differences. Finnish underwear is made of wool and asbestos and covers you from head to toe. Brasilian underwear is made of dental floss and a postal stamp and covers nothing.
I wouldn’t want my mom to see what I strip off of my GF either. Would you be any more fine with your parents finding evidence of what you did last night with your BF?
Didn’t have to see them.
Do his parents know he’s dating?
Weird, who would keep lingerie visible in the apartment?