As someone regularly on Grindr, and in various different places around the country, a lot of you ladies are being taken for fools. The amount of men who see absolutely nothing wrong with messing around with other fellas, and don’t consider it cheating, is astonishing.
zokkozokko on
They each wanted to go to a different pub so your husband said “Let’s toss for it…”
pyrpaul on
Agony aunts in 2025 is so weird.
Who catches their fella wacking it with “Sean” from the footy-what’sapp group and decides to write into the Irish Times?
Bill_Badbody on
>My husband’s in his 30s and met this man a few years ago.
>He had been meeting his friend almost every week, mostly at his friend’s place. I’d understood this as having a few drinks and hanging out.
>His friend is not attached. I think his friend is gay
I think your husband may be having an affair…..
RegulateCandour on
It was the medication he was on. For his blood pressure. It fucked with his head, but he’s over that now. He could probably get a letter from his doctor
TheStoicNihilist on
What a stroke of bad luck.
Dazzling_Detective79 on
God forbid a man has hobbies
Spodokom221745 on
It’s just two men sharing the night,
It might seem wrong but it’s just right.
It’s just two men sharing each other,
It’s just two men like loving brothers.
doates1997 on
Thats enough reddit for me today
Funpolice911 on
Ah it was probably a few painkillers and alcohol caused it. Just ask Neil Prenderville.
Constant-Chipmunk187 on
Slow news day, Irish Times?
micar11 on
Remember reading a thing once about young lads who wank in groups ……. a race to see who cums first.
Thought to myself….surely not…..perhaps it is a thing.
Light_Bulb_Sam on
Puts a whole new meaning to the phrase “having a wank with the lads”
TheNotWellHotel on
As a gay guy, I have found that a lot of heterosexual people are always genuinely shocked at the amount of closeted/ curious/ experimental men who are regularly cheating on their partners with other men.
Not only are these men ruining the lives of their partner, they also expect the openly gay man to harbour his secret – I personally don’t engage with these kinds of guys, but I have dozens of stories that I could tell. I would wager that most gay men in Ireland also have similar experiences.
Aside from everything else, it’s just desperately sad. We may be more accepted than ever, but there is a deep shame for many that still lingers.
DeadlySkies on
They should start a band. They could be the next Beatles
dubguy37 on
Bi now Gay later .
Ok-Head2054 on
“Roe” McDermott (not even her real first name) is the sister of Eoghan McDermott of “runaway to Australia after _ALLEGED_ underage SA claims are made”-fame.
Her _alleged_ articles are as _allegedly_ real as her _alleged_ name.
An absolute balloon.
Ok_Ladder_1717 on
I had a friend who would whack off with strangers in a group chat to girls we knew. He was caught by sending a selfie into the chat that disappeared, but somebody’s girlfriend had one of their boyfriends phones and screen shotted his selfie and all the girls he was posting. We haven’t talked since.
Legitimate-Olive1052 on

Oichean on
What happens on the gaycation stays on the gaycation
Ireland_Con on

theslabs on
Nothing wrong with it, it’s just guy’s being dudes.
Deep-Cryptographer49 on
“faster…faster”
“ffs shut up Mick, you’re putting me off my stroke”
justsayinbtw on
Pull yourself together.
zep2floyd on
Had two roommates from Spain while in school in Cork and they would do the same thing about 20 years ago…I always thought it was just a continental thing but I guess not…
alt4hidingmathshame on
If you don’t blow him, someone else will
NightmanLullaby17 on
Lol this is a south park episode!
jh4336 on
The amount of guys I’ve met through the apps that claim to be straight is beyond me. It’s still cheating and we’re not here for it.
But also important to know that some of the gayest shit I’ve ever seen has been done by straight lads in the name of banter.
This was usually at a more formative age though which isn’t the case here.
Sexuality is just more fluid than people think.
hoopingcranes on
What a terrible day to have eyes
MacaroonFancy9181 on
No, no, he said it’s Nutting
DamDanIt on
This stuff is clearly made up. It’s nuts the IT still publishes it tbh
r_person on
What they need now is to pull themselves together.
Meglamore on
Was there a biscuit in front of them?
AegisT_ on
God forbid men have hobbies
Dubalot2023 on
I did not have sexual relations with that man*
*if you define sexual relations as the copulation of two or more individual

stoveen on
Times like this I’m glad it’s behind a paywall
anmcnama on
Sounds like he took too many Nurofen Plus a la Neil Prendeville
Independent-Water321 on
Well don’t just stand there, give them a hand!
dapaal123 on
Another fabricated piece of nonsense. There’s not a single sane person in the world that’d write to Roe McDermott looking for advice.
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Ha, what a pair of wankers
Sure it’s just a bit of craic like
Perfectly normal male bonding
A brojob ain’t cheating.
Shur isn’t that the way…
They were just practicing how to use joysticks
As someone regularly on Grindr, and in various different places around the country, a lot of you ladies are being taken for fools. The amount of men who see absolutely nothing wrong with messing around with other fellas, and don’t consider it cheating, is astonishing.
They each wanted to go to a different pub so your husband said “Let’s toss for it…”
Agony aunts in 2025 is so weird.
Who catches their fella wacking it with “Sean” from the footy-what’sapp group and decides to write into the Irish Times?
>My husband’s in his 30s and met this man a few years ago.
>He had been meeting his friend almost every week, mostly at his friend’s place. I’d understood this as having a few drinks and hanging out.
>His friend is not attached. I think his friend is gay
I think your husband may be having an affair…..
It was the medication he was on. For his blood pressure. It fucked with his head, but he’s over that now. He could probably get a letter from his doctor
What a stroke of bad luck.
God forbid a man has hobbies
It’s just two men sharing the night,
It might seem wrong but it’s just right.
It’s just two men sharing each other,
It’s just two men like loving brothers.
Thats enough reddit for me today
Ah it was probably a few painkillers and alcohol caused it. Just ask Neil Prenderville.
Slow news day, Irish Times?
Remember reading a thing once about young lads who wank in groups ……. a race to see who cums first.
Thought to myself….surely not…..perhaps it is a thing.
Puts a whole new meaning to the phrase “having a wank with the lads”
As a gay guy, I have found that a lot of heterosexual people are always genuinely shocked at the amount of closeted/ curious/ experimental men who are regularly cheating on their partners with other men.
Not only are these men ruining the lives of their partner, they also expect the openly gay man to harbour his secret – I personally don’t engage with these kinds of guys, but I have dozens of stories that I could tell. I would wager that most gay men in Ireland also have similar experiences.
Aside from everything else, it’s just desperately sad. We may be more accepted than ever, but there is a deep shame for many that still lingers.
They should start a band. They could be the next Beatles
Bi now Gay later .
“Roe” McDermott (not even her real first name) is the sister of Eoghan McDermott of “runaway to Australia after _ALLEGED_ underage SA claims are made”-fame.
Her _alleged_ articles are as _allegedly_ real as her _alleged_ name.
An absolute balloon.
I had a friend who would whack off with strangers in a group chat to girls we knew. He was caught by sending a selfie into the chat that disappeared, but somebody’s girlfriend had one of their boyfriends phones and screen shotted his selfie and all the girls he was posting. We haven’t talked since.

What happens on the gaycation stays on the gaycation

Nothing wrong with it, it’s just guy’s being dudes.
“faster…faster”
“ffs shut up Mick, you’re putting me off my stroke”
Pull yourself together.
Had two roommates from Spain while in school in Cork and they would do the same thing about 20 years ago…I always thought it was just a continental thing but I guess not…
If you don’t blow him, someone else will
Lol this is a south park episode!
The amount of guys I’ve met through the apps that claim to be straight is beyond me. It’s still cheating and we’re not here for it.
But also important to know that some of the gayest shit I’ve ever seen has been done by straight lads in the name of banter.
This was usually at a more formative age though which isn’t the case here.
Sexuality is just more fluid than people think.
What a terrible day to have eyes
No, no, he said it’s Nutting
This stuff is clearly made up. It’s nuts the IT still publishes it tbh
What they need now is to pull themselves together.
Was there a biscuit in front of them?
God forbid men have hobbies
I did not have sexual relations with that man*
*if you define sexual relations as the copulation of two or more individual

Times like this I’m glad it’s behind a paywall
Sounds like he took too many Nurofen Plus a la Neil Prendeville
Well don’t just stand there, give them a hand!
Another fabricated piece of nonsense. There’s not a single sane person in the world that’d write to Roe McDermott looking for advice.