As NHS staff myself, our facilities and buildings really aren’t fit for playing these games. His home situation must have been beyond desperate
ferris2 on
With behaviour like that, he’s liable to get struck off.
Woof.
alinalovescrisps on
So he’s blaming it on the fact that his baby was born prematurely, his wife had a very traumatic birth and they “weren’t connecting as a couple”. What a terrible excuse for a man, let alone a terrible doctor.
Onlyfriends0936 on
It’s not right, of course. But still kind of impressive?
toastedipod on
He needs a lifetime ban from the NHS. What the fuck.
sylanar on
What a total POS
Blames it on his wife having a premature birth, fucks off to Pakistan, and then says he wishes to return as a doctor in the UK one day?
I sincerely hope he’s never allowed to be a Dr here again
EddieHeadshot on
Why is the Nurse not being named aswell? Surely they are both as in the wrong as each other???
Remarkable_Misty on
Wow he needs prison fot a very very very long time
Apez_in_Space on
This certainly doesn’t pass any ethics checks. Guess that’s his career in the UK over!
levobupivacaine on
This happened in 2013…how has it taken 12 years to get to this point?
OddCowboy123 on
What happened to the nurse?
What lovely people I must say.
Particular_Tough4860 on
I see some comments here with anger about him bringing up about the traumatic birth of his child and lack of connection with his wife.
Maybe he is just a POS, but also postnatal depression in men is a real thing and postnatal depression in women can be a real and terrible thing.
When my son was born, I saw a glimpse of how hormones can mess up a mother so badly that she can leave her child in a bin. My wife was uncaring towards our baby and was a monster towards me. Attacking my every insecurity, hitting me, deliberately keeping me sleep depraved by waking me up all day while I was working nights and nasty, credible threats of what she is going to do.
I was tired and messed up myself. I was both a victim and yet I also feel guilty for failing my wife by completely failing to recognise what was going on or getting her help (not that I think she would have accepted any).
We, somehow, survived it. Partly I think because I didn’t have the function left in me to divorce. Partly because I feared for my baby. I could easily have done something stupid at this time.
She snapped out of it in the end and now she is an amazing wife again and an amazing mother.
Since being open about this story, I’ve heard from other dads with similar stories. One dad had his wife call him to a forest, where she’d arranged to have sex with another man. Her plan, which worked, was to get caught cheating on him just to hurt him. He was also on the brink of insanity.
Long story short – if the issues of postnatal depression (male and/or female) are effecting you, you aren’t alone.
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As NHS staff myself, our facilities and buildings really aren’t fit for playing these games. His home situation must have been beyond desperate
With behaviour like that, he’s liable to get struck off.
Woof.
So he’s blaming it on the fact that his baby was born prematurely, his wife had a very traumatic birth and they “weren’t connecting as a couple”. What a terrible excuse for a man, let alone a terrible doctor.
It’s not right, of course. But still kind of impressive?
He needs a lifetime ban from the NHS. What the fuck.
What a total POS
Blames it on his wife having a premature birth, fucks off to Pakistan, and then says he wishes to return as a doctor in the UK one day?
I sincerely hope he’s never allowed to be a Dr here again
Why is the Nurse not being named aswell? Surely they are both as in the wrong as each other???
Wow he needs prison fot a very very very long time
This certainly doesn’t pass any ethics checks. Guess that’s his career in the UK over!
This happened in 2013…how has it taken 12 years to get to this point?
What happened to the nurse?
What lovely people I must say.
I see some comments here with anger about him bringing up about the traumatic birth of his child and lack of connection with his wife.
Maybe he is just a POS, but also postnatal depression in men is a real thing and postnatal depression in women can be a real and terrible thing.
When my son was born, I saw a glimpse of how hormones can mess up a mother so badly that she can leave her child in a bin. My wife was uncaring towards our baby and was a monster towards me. Attacking my every insecurity, hitting me, deliberately keeping me sleep depraved by waking me up all day while I was working nights and nasty, credible threats of what she is going to do.
I was tired and messed up myself. I was both a victim and yet I also feel guilty for failing my wife by completely failing to recognise what was going on or getting her help (not that I think she would have accepted any).
We, somehow, survived it. Partly I think because I didn’t have the function left in me to divorce. Partly because I feared for my baby. I could easily have done something stupid at this time.
She snapped out of it in the end and now she is an amazing wife again and an amazing mother.
Since being open about this story, I’ve heard from other dads with similar stories. One dad had his wife call him to a forest, where she’d arranged to have sex with another man. Her plan, which worked, was to get caught cheating on him just to hurt him. He was also on the brink of insanity.
Long story short – if the issues of postnatal depression (male and/or female) are effecting you, you aren’t alone.