Ciao. La mia coinquilina è diventata più audace con la sua aggressività, recentemente ha iniziato a essere sottilmente fisica. Mi sbatteva le porte degli elettrodomestici (lavatrice, forno, cassetti, lavastoviglie) sulla gamba invece di chiedermi di muovermi. Oggi me l’ha fatto al ginocchio e mi ha fatto male e mi è rimasto un piccolo segno rosso. Le ho urlato contro e lei mi ha provocato, al che ho risposto arrabbiandomi a morte e urlando finché non ci hanno suonato entrambe le orecchie. Ho chiesto aiuto alla mia padrona di casa (signora?), e lei ha detto che sono solo su questa questione. Domani penso di andare dalla polizia. Cosa è probabile che accada?. Ora sa che può causarmi lesioni fisiche e farla franca.
In allegato c’è il segno che ha causato. Anche in questo caso è piccolo, per lo più ho solo paura dell’escalation.
PS: siamo entrambi Ausländer.
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di Newaccountwhodis00
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Untreated mental illness
I don’t know about the police, but I would start avoid being at the same room at the same time with her. Also, start looking for another WG to stay in if you think what she’s doing is intentional.
report it either way, if you can get it recorded (secretly that is) it might help. If she damages anything you can probably get the landlord to kick her out because suddenly he or she might care about it.
Just record some evidence before going to police if you’re genuinely a victim. This mark will more likely disappear till tomorrow
Looks like a zit, the police won’t care.
Lashing out and reacting emotionally isn’t the right move. Disengage, ignore and look for another WG, let her make somebody else miserable.
God bless
yeah you should definitely go to the police. it doesn’t matter that you’re both foreigners, the police should (ik ideally) treat you just like anyone else.
How’s the relationships regarding rent. are you on a shared lease or are you both just renting a room. Are you renting out a room to her?
depending on that it might be possible to kick her out. police might also remove her from the premises for being violent
You can go to the police but think of a goal to tell them what you want them to do. Do you want yo get out of the house and need their help? Are you expecting them to kick her out of the house- it won’t happen so easily if she’s registered there. Maybe they remove her temporarily for a couple of weeks to give you time to figure out what to do. They will not arrest her or anything like that. They can’t really change her behaviour either. They may come abd warn her if that helps.
It’s just not sustainable to live sith such a person so find a way to get out of there.
What nationality is she? (Not to discriminate anyone) or what continent? Asking cause some specific ones popped on my mind
….are the two of you maybe 8 y.o.?
This reads incredibly incomplete and weird. Either write a proper post, explaining the living situation, what happened, who did what or don’t expect anything here.
As you could both be insane, she could be wrong, both could be wrong or so on.
Edit: Guess she was 8. Jesus. First the fake, post then insults and now she deletes everything. Dafuq.
Fightback, or change your place.
Yes.