Ho vissuto 20 anni di vita (relativamente per una persona giovane) e ora sono un adulto nel mio paese d’origine.
I 5 anni che ho trascorso in quel posto dal 2014 al 2019 sono stati i peggiori che abbia mai trascorso.
Mi sento come se, dopo tutto quello che ho passato in quel posto, non me ne fossi mai andato. Ho troppi traumi che semplicemente non mi hanno mai lasciato anche dopo 7 anni che non ci vado più.
Penso che quel posto abbia un vero problema di bullismo, soprattutto nel dipartimento delle scuole superiori, e che non ci siano soluzioni adeguate su come affrontare questi casi. La scuola semplicemente li nasconde sotto il tappeto e finge che non siano accaduti.
Sono stato gravemente vittima di bullismo in quel posto. E ho trascorso la maggior parte dei 7 anni in terapia cercando di superare il trauma che ho subito.
Semplicemente non posso raccomandare o apprezzare questo posto e i problemi al suo interno per quello che è e per quello che mi ha fatto.
Spero che nessun altro abbia mai vissuto le stesse cose che ho vissuto io in quel posto. Per questo motivo sono qui per chiedere se qualcun altro si collega direttamente o indirettamente con ciò che sto dicendo ora.
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di GmSniperiiLover
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TW (multiple rough topics in faced by a child primarily between the ages of 11-13) things I went through in that school:
– I have been repeatedly and heavily beaten. With the beating being pre planned and intentional.
– I have been harassed. I.E. spat on, groped, and very much threatened with physical and sexual violence. These were under pretences of letting other copy my homework or simply to intimidate and hurt me.
– I have been trapped in the bathroom, with people stabbing my zits with pencils.
– I have almost been drowned by a group of 3.
– I have been told to off myself multiple times, and when I was genuinely depressed and feeling like I wanted to, was encouraged by my classmates on the matter.
– Ostracised and called weird for my likings and hobbies, primarily model kits and LEGO.
– And very much discriminated for my autism. I made my class aware of my diagnosis after I got it as I felt it was a good chance to be open and honest with them. The treatment I got in return was not what I was expecting. As other began either treating me worse because they liked it, or simply treating me like a lesser, mentally primarily
I pass through this school on the train every day, from Cappalen & the kids seem so stressed lol
I went to a regular luxembourgish school and I have severe trauma too, and I graduated in 2020. You’re not alone, I’m sorry you went through that..,
Thats crazy, I was there for 12 years and never had any significant experience of anyone getting bullied or serious violence ( 3 proper fights). I think it really depends on your class
Thats not a bullying problem its a victim problem.
Thoses experiences would have been the same anywhere else. Believe me.
You need to learn to let go, or to focus your grude on the people who did it not the place where they did it.