It costs a bloody fortune… thats why! (didnt read the article, im just naturally judgy)
PolarLocalCallingSvc on
Well when clubs are wanting a tenner for a double JD and coke it’s hardly surprising, not to mention the entrance fee.
I’ve never been a huge clubbing person but even when I was at uni about a decade ago, we would prelash to avoid the daft nightclub prices. Drug prices have gone up as well which hasn’t helped. If I want loud bass and dancing, I’m more likely to go to a house party or a rave.
I’m more of a pub goer myself, which I’m partial to still. Get a decent conversation or a pub quiz out of it though.
happywindsurfing on
Unless you’re on the pull or going to a themed night where you know the music isn’t terrible,.clubbing is boring as fuck.
At least in the 90s there was this undercurrent of eurphoric futuristic optimistism in the dance music scene. What is there to be optimistic about and revel about these days.
Nuthetes on
Too expensive, lack of police presence makes it feel ropey as fuck — at least in Nottingham.
I went out for a night out with my sister when I last visited home earlier this year. Nottingham city centre at night just felt fucking dicey and not a rozzer to be seen. Just obvious wrong ‘uns walking around
Tancred1099 on
It’s laughable anyone thinks ppl have enough disposable income these days to wax on a night
Hell, I couldn’t even afford a 2000s night out never mind what it costs now!
things_U_choose_2_b on
Small and medium venues closing, because of council rates / owners selling to convert to flats etc is a HUGE issue. It’s harder than ever to find a suitable venue now.
I know from experience that putting on an event is both expensive and risky. Not to mention the massive time input. Many new events are lucky to break even. This isn’t even touching on the whole ‘everyone is skint as fuck’ issue. I’m an audio engineer, paying someone to write music for you is a luxury. It’s always obvious to me when society in general is struggling, because business starts to drop off.
2008 was particularly rough / noticeable. IMO we’ve never truly recovered from that event.
Apart_Contest_2283 on
It’s expensive, people are pooper, people socialise online, the dating world used to evolve around getting drunk and building up the courage to flirt.
Now online dating is the norm.
Noonecanseemenow on
I wonder why in a country with stagnant wages, cost of living crisis, low quality of venues and people being more health conscious I can’t imagine why people dont go out anymore
Acidhousewife on
I’m the same age as the couple in the article, 58.,
Would be in a pub. club or going to a gig 3 or 4 times a week, with my then fiancée in the late 80s.
Whilst we were buying a house, on a local authority combined Band 4 and band 2 wage in the South east of England.
So income and having enough disposable is a factor. a massive factor, humungous.
However, there’s a reason we went out too, 4 channels on the TV that stopped around midnight, no internet, no gaming, no streaming. If you wanted to see a movie, within 2 years of it’s release it was a trip to the cinema. Takeaways were actually takeaways for the most part, delivery the odd Chinese or pizza aside didn’t exist.
I think even if people did have the money. especially people under 30, we would still be witnessing a decline in nightlife due to the fact that staying at home, doesn’t mean sitting in front of the TV deciding which one of the 4 bland choices on TV at any given time, were, we could endure watching.
lucyuktv on
Pretty much every Wetherspoons in the country is packed every minute it’s open. It’s not a demand problem.
onionsareawful on
as someone who went to uni recently, there are a few reasons:
1. it’s expensive
2. people film everything. the internet rarely forgets, do you want to be filmed throwing up outside or otherwise looking like a complete idiot? probably not!
3. councils are actively hostile to venues. restrictions on how long places can open or what they can do really reduce the appeal, and they’re widespread across the UK now. a club near me had an amazing outdoor / smoking area with its own bar, and they’re not allowed to open it for most of the day because it’s *somewhat near* a secondary school. it’s not in view, it’s a ~5 minute walk down the road, and the restrictions apply up until 9-10pm on weekdays.
4. lean up crews are becoming more common, really doesn’t help too. for those who don’t know: [https://metro.co.uk/2025/11/15/clean-up-crews-targeting-vulnerable-university-students-dark-24690674/](https://metro.co.uk/2025/11/15/clean-up-crews-targeting-vulnerable-university-students-dark-24690674/) . it’s a definite and real fear for many of my friends, they just will drink and have fun at home instead b/c of it.
5. spiking
Vladsamir on
As someone of a younger generation; it’s just not our thing.
It’s expensive, haven’t got a job because they’re impossible to get, it’s loud, kinda boring and usually disappointing.
Times change. What was popular 26 years ago is no longer as popular.
Jensablefur on
In hindsight, nights out were a bit shit.
And now they’re multiple times the amount they were just 10 or 15 years ago, online dating makes up for the fact it used to be a front for icebreaking for dating, and your cringe drunken antics can be readily recorded and reposted…
Yeah. I can see why current people in their 20s can’t be arsed.
storm_borm on
I went to a rave in my home city a couple of years ago as a 30 year old and it was depressing. None of the younger people were dancing, just filming on their phones. I felt like an idiot dancing. It’s such a different atmosphere now compared to when I was 18 at similar events.
imnotabotimafreeman on
Clubbings always been expensive but when you look at what you spend before the club as in beers in bars and pubs thats as bad now. Pubs are now quieter on a weekend and virtually dead midweek. When it costs £25 for a few midweek drinks and about £100 for a good night out you gotta ask if you could spend that money in a better way
the_magicwriter on
Meanwhile the over 30’s 5.00 – 9.00pm events are packed out with every club in the city getting in on it.
Nobody wants to be standing around at 1.00am in horizontal sleet waiting for a taxi, which are rare as hen’s teeth when you actually need them.
PartyPoison98 on
Endless think pieces about cultural changes etc etc. Its the PRICE. End of.
TheOmegaKid on
The rent is too damn high, wages are too damn low, the tax brackets are too damn low. Billionaires took all the money and now everyone is in debt and depressed af.
Gooner_93 on
Its just not worth it. Costs too much, plus I just dont have the energy for it now Im almost in my mid 30s. Its not healthy gettin smashed every weekend, like I used to.
Much rather buy a bottle of whatever and gather at a friends house, every few months, while playing our music in the background.
BenderRodriguez14 on
“I just don’t understand… we priced young people out of almost everything… degraded the quality… then raised prices even further… and now they’re not spending money doing all the things they used to. How ever did this happen?”
GainsAndPastries on
It costs £9 for a single drink in a loud sweaty venue where your chance of being assaulted are high.
Security don’t care, the bar staff don’t care, it’s cheaper and safer to stay at home.
Accomplished_Jelly58 on
Paid £14.90 for a double rum and coke the other day. The bottle of rum in tesco costs £18.
Drank 3 in just over an hour, so almost £45 for less than £4 worth of rum and £2 worth of coke
Why bother with the queues, the crap mixes in a tiny glass, when i can free pour whenever i want and save a fortune at home
Mclarenrob2 on
Every other news article is about a rape or stabbing, which also adds to people choosing to stay at home.
Eastern_Job_4746 on
Its cheaper to buy a gram of cocain than it is to drink out now
Madness_Quotient on
It will probably take some tech-bro coming up with a “clubbing as a service” app where a digital dj takes requests by app and everyone brings their own headphones for a “silent disco”… Drinks are paid for using an in app payment system (with a service fee of course), and your phone vibrates when the person dancing next to you has preselected you for slow dances on their digital dance card, or is willing to if you subscribe to their premium dance card.
Illustrious_Body5907 on
I got stuck last week cuz it took almost an hour to find a ride home after a busy night. The club is almost always shit, you can’t actually talk to your friends cuz it’s loud and packed, you have to drink to find it remotely enjoyable (which is bad for you), you stay out late (also bad for you) it’s not hygienic or even safe, and that’s before the fact you realise its incredibly pricey.
Like… once you’re out of uni and aren’t seeing your friends there weekly, there is 0 merit or advantage to going
wearezombie on
One thing that I don’t think gets considered is that the monoculture doesn’t exist anymore. I think people will argue with me that clubs have always been shit and they’ve never been into that music, but think about it – even if you didn’t like the songs, you’d still recognise the top 10 songs from 2016 and be able to name the artist. The top 10 now would be a struggle unless you actively listen to the radio or regularly use tiktok (and if the latter, you’d know it as “that song off tiktok” rather than X performed by Y). I was a metalhead when I turned 18 but I still very well knew One Dance, Sorry, I Took A Pill In Ibiza. They were everywhere. Looking at the chart now, I’m aware of the name Sombr but even listening to the radio at work and regularly using social media I haven’t actually heard his charting song.
Most people listen to music through streaming now so they choose what to listen to rather than having their tastes shaped by radio play. A song from 2012 and a song from 2016 are on the top 10 singles chart right now. Why would you want to go to a grotty club to listen to songs you don’t know when you can have cheaper alcohol and your own playlist at home? On the same note, themed nights and niche bars seem to fill up reasonably (e.g: metal bars, twilight nights, kpop nights) but they are indeed a risk.
Cold-Succotash-7185 on
I think people are massively overlooking that clubs used to be the main way to get a shag/go on the pull. There’s apps now which take away the peril, the cost and the need to get drunk.
Yes a night out expensive, but clubs kind of always were. That cost was seen as a necessary evil.
bobblebob100 on
Obvious answer is money, but i think there is alot more to it. The clubbing generation have got older, had families so dont go clubbing.
The younger generation prefer daytime drinking and/or things like bottomless brunch and be home at a reasonable hour.
Clubs dont exact sound appealing. Overpriced drinks, smelling dance floor and overly loud music where you cant hear yourself think.
PiplupSneasel on
Shit drinks, shit prices and shit music.
Its not hard to work out.
UsuallyIncoherent on
For me there’s lots of reasons:
The cost is utterly ridiculous now. Over £5 for a pint anywhere but sometimes and usually around £7.
People in bars are rude and annoying and bar staff would rather serve the women with boobs first who would also happily push in front of you.
Taxi companies inflate their prices so getting home can cost £20!
People are drinking less alcohol, I think as social media promotes looking your best, gym culture is massive now.
I usually wake up the next morning full of regret for how I feel and how much a spent – that never used to happen when I was 18-25 ish
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It costs a bloody fortune… thats why! (didnt read the article, im just naturally judgy)
Well when clubs are wanting a tenner for a double JD and coke it’s hardly surprising, not to mention the entrance fee.
I’ve never been a huge clubbing person but even when I was at uni about a decade ago, we would prelash to avoid the daft nightclub prices. Drug prices have gone up as well which hasn’t helped. If I want loud bass and dancing, I’m more likely to go to a house party or a rave.
I’m more of a pub goer myself, which I’m partial to still. Get a decent conversation or a pub quiz out of it though.
Unless you’re on the pull or going to a themed night where you know the music isn’t terrible,.clubbing is boring as fuck.
At least in the 90s there was this undercurrent of eurphoric futuristic optimistism in the dance music scene. What is there to be optimistic about and revel about these days.
Too expensive, lack of police presence makes it feel ropey as fuck — at least in Nottingham.
I went out for a night out with my sister when I last visited home earlier this year. Nottingham city centre at night just felt fucking dicey and not a rozzer to be seen. Just obvious wrong ‘uns walking around
It’s laughable anyone thinks ppl have enough disposable income these days to wax on a night
Hell, I couldn’t even afford a 2000s night out never mind what it costs now!
Small and medium venues closing, because of council rates / owners selling to convert to flats etc is a HUGE issue. It’s harder than ever to find a suitable venue now.
I know from experience that putting on an event is both expensive and risky. Not to mention the massive time input. Many new events are lucky to break even. This isn’t even touching on the whole ‘everyone is skint as fuck’ issue. I’m an audio engineer, paying someone to write music for you is a luxury. It’s always obvious to me when society in general is struggling, because business starts to drop off.
2008 was particularly rough / noticeable. IMO we’ve never truly recovered from that event.
It’s expensive, people are pooper, people socialise online, the dating world used to evolve around getting drunk and building up the courage to flirt.
Now online dating is the norm.
I wonder why in a country with stagnant wages, cost of living crisis, low quality of venues and people being more health conscious I can’t imagine why people dont go out anymore
I’m the same age as the couple in the article, 58.,
Would be in a pub. club or going to a gig 3 or 4 times a week, with my then fiancée in the late 80s.
Whilst we were buying a house, on a local authority combined Band 4 and band 2 wage in the South east of England.
So income and having enough disposable is a factor. a massive factor, humungous.
However, there’s a reason we went out too, 4 channels on the TV that stopped around midnight, no internet, no gaming, no streaming. If you wanted to see a movie, within 2 years of it’s release it was a trip to the cinema. Takeaways were actually takeaways for the most part, delivery the odd Chinese or pizza aside didn’t exist.
I think even if people did have the money. especially people under 30, we would still be witnessing a decline in nightlife due to the fact that staying at home, doesn’t mean sitting in front of the TV deciding which one of the 4 bland choices on TV at any given time, were, we could endure watching.
Pretty much every Wetherspoons in the country is packed every minute it’s open. It’s not a demand problem.
as someone who went to uni recently, there are a few reasons:
1. it’s expensive
2. people film everything. the internet rarely forgets, do you want to be filmed throwing up outside or otherwise looking like a complete idiot? probably not!
3. councils are actively hostile to venues. restrictions on how long places can open or what they can do really reduce the appeal, and they’re widespread across the UK now. a club near me had an amazing outdoor / smoking area with its own bar, and they’re not allowed to open it for most of the day because it’s *somewhat near* a secondary school. it’s not in view, it’s a ~5 minute walk down the road, and the restrictions apply up until 9-10pm on weekdays.
4. lean up crews are becoming more common, really doesn’t help too. for those who don’t know: [https://metro.co.uk/2025/11/15/clean-up-crews-targeting-vulnerable-university-students-dark-24690674/](https://metro.co.uk/2025/11/15/clean-up-crews-targeting-vulnerable-university-students-dark-24690674/) . it’s a definite and real fear for many of my friends, they just will drink and have fun at home instead b/c of it.
5. spiking
As someone of a younger generation; it’s just not our thing.
It’s expensive, haven’t got a job because they’re impossible to get, it’s loud, kinda boring and usually disappointing.
Times change. What was popular 26 years ago is no longer as popular.
In hindsight, nights out were a bit shit.
And now they’re multiple times the amount they were just 10 or 15 years ago, online dating makes up for the fact it used to be a front for icebreaking for dating, and your cringe drunken antics can be readily recorded and reposted…
Yeah. I can see why current people in their 20s can’t be arsed.
I went to a rave in my home city a couple of years ago as a 30 year old and it was depressing. None of the younger people were dancing, just filming on their phones. I felt like an idiot dancing. It’s such a different atmosphere now compared to when I was 18 at similar events.
Clubbings always been expensive but when you look at what you spend before the club as in beers in bars and pubs thats as bad now. Pubs are now quieter on a weekend and virtually dead midweek. When it costs £25 for a few midweek drinks and about £100 for a good night out you gotta ask if you could spend that money in a better way
Meanwhile the over 30’s 5.00 – 9.00pm events are packed out with every club in the city getting in on it.
Nobody wants to be standing around at 1.00am in horizontal sleet waiting for a taxi, which are rare as hen’s teeth when you actually need them.
Endless think pieces about cultural changes etc etc. Its the PRICE. End of.
The rent is too damn high, wages are too damn low, the tax brackets are too damn low. Billionaires took all the money and now everyone is in debt and depressed af.
Its just not worth it. Costs too much, plus I just dont have the energy for it now Im almost in my mid 30s. Its not healthy gettin smashed every weekend, like I used to.
Much rather buy a bottle of whatever and gather at a friends house, every few months, while playing our music in the background.
“I just don’t understand… we priced young people out of almost everything… degraded the quality… then raised prices even further… and now they’re not spending money doing all the things they used to. How ever did this happen?”
It costs £9 for a single drink in a loud sweaty venue where your chance of being assaulted are high.
Security don’t care, the bar staff don’t care, it’s cheaper and safer to stay at home.
Paid £14.90 for a double rum and coke the other day. The bottle of rum in tesco costs £18.
Drank 3 in just over an hour, so almost £45 for less than £4 worth of rum and £2 worth of coke
Why bother with the queues, the crap mixes in a tiny glass, when i can free pour whenever i want and save a fortune at home
Every other news article is about a rape or stabbing, which also adds to people choosing to stay at home.
Its cheaper to buy a gram of cocain than it is to drink out now
It will probably take some tech-bro coming up with a “clubbing as a service” app where a digital dj takes requests by app and everyone brings their own headphones for a “silent disco”… Drinks are paid for using an in app payment system (with a service fee of course), and your phone vibrates when the person dancing next to you has preselected you for slow dances on their digital dance card, or is willing to if you subscribe to their premium dance card.
I got stuck last week cuz it took almost an hour to find a ride home after a busy night. The club is almost always shit, you can’t actually talk to your friends cuz it’s loud and packed, you have to drink to find it remotely enjoyable (which is bad for you), you stay out late (also bad for you) it’s not hygienic or even safe, and that’s before the fact you realise its incredibly pricey.
Like… once you’re out of uni and aren’t seeing your friends there weekly, there is 0 merit or advantage to going
One thing that I don’t think gets considered is that the monoculture doesn’t exist anymore. I think people will argue with me that clubs have always been shit and they’ve never been into that music, but think about it – even if you didn’t like the songs, you’d still recognise the top 10 songs from 2016 and be able to name the artist. The top 10 now would be a struggle unless you actively listen to the radio or regularly use tiktok (and if the latter, you’d know it as “that song off tiktok” rather than X performed by Y). I was a metalhead when I turned 18 but I still very well knew One Dance, Sorry, I Took A Pill In Ibiza. They were everywhere. Looking at the chart now, I’m aware of the name Sombr but even listening to the radio at work and regularly using social media I haven’t actually heard his charting song.
Most people listen to music through streaming now so they choose what to listen to rather than having their tastes shaped by radio play. A song from 2012 and a song from 2016 are on the top 10 singles chart right now. Why would you want to go to a grotty club to listen to songs you don’t know when you can have cheaper alcohol and your own playlist at home? On the same note, themed nights and niche bars seem to fill up reasonably (e.g: metal bars, twilight nights, kpop nights) but they are indeed a risk.
I think people are massively overlooking that clubs used to be the main way to get a shag/go on the pull. There’s apps now which take away the peril, the cost and the need to get drunk.
Yes a night out expensive, but clubs kind of always were. That cost was seen as a necessary evil.
Obvious answer is money, but i think there is alot more to it. The clubbing generation have got older, had families so dont go clubbing.
The younger generation prefer daytime drinking and/or things like bottomless brunch and be home at a reasonable hour.
Clubs dont exact sound appealing. Overpriced drinks, smelling dance floor and overly loud music where you cant hear yourself think.
Shit drinks, shit prices and shit music.
Its not hard to work out.
For me there’s lots of reasons:
The cost is utterly ridiculous now. Over £5 for a pint anywhere but sometimes and usually around £7.
People in bars are rude and annoying and bar staff would rather serve the women with boobs first who would also happily push in front of you.
Taxi companies inflate their prices so getting home can cost £20!
People are drinking less alcohol, I think as social media promotes looking your best, gym culture is massive now.
I usually wake up the next morning full of regret for how I feel and how much a spent – that never used to happen when I was 18-25 ish